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I do apologize for not being able to update my site..... I promise to provide food, hotel, restos, fashion, artists, movie feeds, values and school feedbacks about certain schools and univerities by next week... see you all soon !!!!

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Hallo!!! here I am again updating my accounts..... ^_^

It's fun and overwhelming when you are with your friends, right? Especially the ones who really laugh at your jokes, goes with you whenever,listens to you when you are down, accepts you for who you are and respect you for what you can do and not do. Oh and you will always see them together. You can easily spot groups because they usually wear the same clothes (color of shirt) or they laugh out loud together. They simply jive.

But in an environment like universities, villages or place of work, yeah you can see people getting along pretty well and later on will bloom into a good friendship. But why is it that there will always be someone distant, who's not at par with the others?

After two months of being in a batch.  I am fortunate I was able to find good and real friends. But amongst the said batch there was this one.... Unique. I say "unique" because I know each of us have our own personalities which make us different from the others. Unfortunately for this one it seems that everyone shunned him (is still tho). He keeps on doing things that got other people offended AND he doesn't seem to know 2 words "I'm"  "Sorry".

We later find out that he was trying hard to fit in with the group. And he wasn't aware that most of the things he was doing. And he even said that he gets jealous with some of the guys because they can get along real well with us women and that they can get away with green jokes. (But as I've said different people differs).You see he was imitating the guys in the batch, not knowing that when he's the one doing it, it sends out wrong signals. And being not aware of the weird thing he's doing that can be constituted to harrassment, We honsestly felt ALARMED by it. During serious role playing in training he would say he's Jacking off... or he would say to someone "can I eat you" and he's a touchy type of person and he said he wasnt even aware of it.

We asked assistance from ER about it but after the long talk,  most of his answers where made up stories just to get away with it..why? because he was the first one who sent and IR against us because he said We were ganging up on him and also because my hubby softly punched him in the face (by the way I said softly becuase it didnt even made a bruise or whaterver on his face, it's like nothing happenedand my hubby is 5'11 compared to this guy who's around 5'4 or 5'3) my hubby did that because he said nasty things about me, and I know any man when he gets to hear things like that being said to his loved one definitely he would take action. By the way he made a big deal about it and the guys from our group thinks he''s gay because of that hahahaha. Anyway, it seems like he just simply WON'T learn.. He does'nt listen actually...He still think of himself High and Mighty while in fact he's not. And he simply won't change.. not a bit. He's still back to his old ways.

I am sad for this person that is why I am blogging about it. Because I do want your opinion about him. I want him to change and to be given another chance becuase he might not get just a soft punch on the face next time because of the things he is saying or doing that HE CLAIMS that he is unaware of.

What do you think I can do about it or he can do....

waiting for opinions thanks.

This is so freaking funny.

I was browsing the internet and reading blogs by my friends when I came across this certain post.
The person who wrote this BLOG, claims that (he/she) is very good at writing originals and that (she/he/it) would never be caught dead copying a post or theme by other bloggers and guess what, (she/he/it) actually did... and my blog none the less....

Anyway I honestly do not know if I'll be flattered because of that or pissed because this copycat comments about a lot of other peoples post, - comments about how uneducated someone is because they do not know how to write something in PERFECT ENGLISH and mind you (she/he/it) comments on that but when you get to read (she/he/it) post (duh!!!!) (she/he/it) even use vernacular (Tagalog - Philippine language) it should have been fine had (she/he/it) not CLAIM (she/he/it) wont write a post in tagalog or tagalog and english combine. Not only this person comments about other post but also blog about other post and other people which (she/he/it) claims that she/he/it is FAR better than them and (she/he/it) will blog about how good (she/he/it) is on this and that but in truth (she/he/it) loves the attention (she/he/it)  is getting and thats all (she/he/it) wants because (she/he/it) only have online friends but no real friends..... why do I know all these (his/her/its) online frineds themselves told me about it and the reason why they shunned this poor person is because of the lies she is posting and how she bad mouth other peepes..

so should i get mad or flattered?

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Searching for that special someone seems to bother a lot of people, for some, they say finding one IS hard. BUT for me RETAINING the SPARK of THAT LOVE once you find it is even more challenging.....

For the past 5 years I have witnessed partners who CLAIMED that they are IN a relationship for more that 3 years, I usually asked them if they are HAPPY, they usually laugh at me... but their eyes usually give them away. (laugh)
You see for others who say they are "IN" a relationship - they stay with their partners just to save the relationship, or just because they are afraid of what other people would say, they have no where to go or out of "HIYA" or "UTANG NA LOOB" or because they want to convince themselves that the other person still love them, but they refrain from asking themselves and fail being honest as to what the real reason behind the situation - do you still call that LOVE? (I dont think so).

LOVE is being able to carry yourself, know what you really want, know what your real worth is, knowing your rights and never letting anyone take you for granted.

LOVE is not finding a partner, instead it is about taking care of yourself and letting this someone take care of you even more.

LOVE is being honest as to what you really want and what you really like, whether to your life, job, the relationship itself, in bed, in everything.

LOVE is about satisfying the person YOU love WITHOUT sacrificing YOUR OWN happiness as well.

LOVE is about telling the once person you thought you would be with for the rest of your life, that you already love someone else rather than hurting them - set them free - let THEM ALSO find someone they can replace you with. (stop being too selfish, your already selfish when you have two person with you, right?)

LOVE as they say like a ballroom dance - TANGO - it takes TWO to make it work.

LOVE lastly is not forceful entry, whether yourself or your partner. YOU CANNOT FORCE someone to love you or COERCE them to a 60 day trial period. LOVE is not a promotion that has an expiration date, it should, whether there are trials, two people agreeing to be there and stay for each other, no replacement, because there are no processing fees, sign up fees or cancellation fees.

Staying true is what LOVE really means, it may be hard but if there are two who's IN that RELATIONSHIP and willing to face it, then there wouldn't be no problem that hard - only challenges that the two of you are more than happy to face in order to win.

HAHAH i'm nit a love expert.. my relationship is still on the process but at least I am proud in saying - we are one ^_^

Searching for that special someone seems to bother a lot of people, for some, they say finding one IS hard. BUT for me RETAINING the SPARK of THAT LOVE once you find it is even more challenging.....

For the past 5 years I have witnessed partners who CLAIMED that they are IN a relationship for more that 3 years, I usually asked them if they are HAPPY, they usually laugh at me... but their eyes usually give them away. (laugh)
You see for others who say they are "IN" a relationship - they stay with their partners just to save the relationship, or just because they are afraid of what other people would say, they have no where to go or out of "HIYA" or "UTANG NA LOOB" or because they want to convince themselves that the other person still love them, but they refrain from asking themselves and fail being honest as to what the real reason behind the situation - do you still call that LOVE? (I dont think so).

LOVE is being able to carry yourself, know what you really want, know what your real worth is, knowing your rights and never letting anyone take you for granted.

LOVE is not finding a partner, instead it is about taking care of yourself and letting this someone take care of you even more.

LOVE is being honest as to what you really want and what you really like, whether to your life, job, the relationship itself, in bed, in everything.

LOVE is about satisfying the person YOU love WITHOUT sacrificing YOUR OWN happiness as well.

LOVE is about telling the once person you thought you would be with for the rest of your life, that you already love someone else rather than hurting them - set them free - let THEM ALSO find someone they can replace you with. (stop being too selfish, your already selfish when you have two person with you, right?)

LOVE as they say like a ballroom dance - TANGO - it takes TWO to make it work.

LOVE lastly is not forceful entry, whether yourself or your partner. YOU CANNOT FORCE someone to love you or COERCE them to a 60 day trial period. LOVE is not a promotion that has an expiration date, it should, whether there are trials, two people agreeing to be there and stay for each other, no replacement, because there are no processing fees, sign up fees or cancellation fees.

Staying true is what LOVE really means, it may be hard but if there are two who's IN that RELATIONSHIP and willing to face it, then there wouldn't be no problem that hard - only challenges that the two of you are more than happy to face in order to win.

HAHAH i'm nit a love expert.. my relationship is still on the process but at least I am proud in saying - we are one ^_^

I was given a chance to watch the advanced screening of Fast & Furious by GE Money. It is such a nice feeling being VIP hehehehehe...

I was given a chance to watch the advanced screening of Fast & Furious by GE Money. It is such a nice feeling being VIP hehehehehe...